Ha kahane ki aadat

  aadat to aadat hee hai aur kisee bhee vyakti dvaara yah khidakee se baahar nahin phenk dee jaatee. haan, ek-aadh seedhee to khisakaee ja sakatee hai.
-maark tven (maark tven)

Sabki aadat alag hoti hai ..kisi ko buri aadat hoti h ..kisi ko achi aadat  ..kuch apni aadat badlna chathe h ..kuch khud ki aadat se khus hote h..
     In aadat m hi ek aadat h "ha kahane ki aadat" ....
   Ab is aadat ko hum kaise define kare ki yh achi h ya buri ....
   Actually hum ise define hi nhi kar sakte because kisi ke kaam ke liye ha bolna ek achi baat hoti h ki hum kisi ke kaam aa sake..........
  Agar aap kisi ko na nhi bol paate sab ka kaam kar dete ho to yha aap ko problems ho sakti h ........
  Is aadat ke karan aap apne important time un logo ke liye waste kar rahe ho jine aap jaante bhi nhi ...ya wo kaam aasani se koi or bhi kar sakta h to fir aap kyo....
     Yhi to reason hai ki aap sab ke kaam k liye ha bol dete ho kisi ko b na nhi bolte ....to log aap ke time..or space ko importance nhi dete aap ko bas har chote ya bade kaam ke liye use karte h ....
....to aap ko apni is ha kahane ki aadat ko thora limited banana chaye ....because jarurat se jyda har cheej problems create karti h .

Comments

  1. Yogesh21 November 2017 at 12:06

    Yes.. Sometimes its better to say NO and enjoy what you do.. I have learnt to say NO and changed this habit.

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